We were sitting in what appeared to be a church basement. There was a stage with metal folding chairs setup. It was sunny outside. We were sitting on two adjacent chairs in the first row while my son Henry was playing on the floor nearby. He appeared to be about three years old (in waking physical reality he is 12). We were talking about nothing in particular. My attention was immediately drawn to what she was wearing. At home she almost always wore a “house coat”. This particular one she had for a number of years during my childhood and seeing her wearing it, I could remember it quite well. A few days before this experience, I found some fabric from this house coat in one of the quit bags and although I recognized it, I wasn’t sure where from. I thought maybe it was one of my old dresses. But seeing her wearing this garment, the memory came back with utter clarity. Then I noticed her face, her skin, her hair – all of it is such perfect detail! Far more detail than I could remember in waking reality. It totally blew my mind.
So finally I said, “You know, I guess I just really don’t understand enough about how this whole being dead thing works.”
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